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JohnLeeได้ร้ื่"TheColourWheelModelofLove"( อ้1973TheColorsofLove) ได้บ่ป็6ด้ได้ี่ี่ม่(Primary)3(Secondary)3ได้ก่
ม่(Primary)
1.Eros(/RomanticLove)ป็ว่“”ป็น่(PassionateLove)ป็(LoveatFirstSight)ป็ด้EroticSex
ย่ร์Eros
>>Titanic
"Youjump,Ijump,remember."
2.Ludus(ฟ้/Loveasagame)ป็ว่“”ั่ไม่ต้ื่ไม่น้ธ์น้ปว่ง่น่ต่ป็ิ้ได้วู่่ป็ว่ี่ึ้
ย่ร์Ludus
>>CruelIntension
3.Storge(/LoveasFriendship)ป็“ป”ป็ี่ด้ื่(Trust)(Respect)(Friendship)ป็ื่ร่ป็ี่ก่ป็ว่ี่น้พ่ม่ได้
ย่ร์Storge
>>Penelope
“Ihadafriend,once,wholikedtogamble.”
(Secondary)
4.Pragma(/PracticalLove)Storge+Ludusป็ู่ี่ด้ั้ใช้ค์ป้ค้ค่ี่ได้ป็ShoppingListัี่ป็ู่ลุ้้ส่ีตู่่ี้
ย่ร์Pragma
>>Mr.&Mrs.Smith
“Thereisnoroomformistakes,whatsoever.Nomistakes.Nospontaneity.”
5.Mania(ม่/obsessive,jealous,emotionallyintenseLove)Eros+Ludusป็ี่ต้ึู่่ต่ำ(LowSelf-Esteem)ให้ต้ป็ู่ั้ใหู้่ั่ี้ไร้ข์
ย่ร์Mania
>>SilverLiningsPlaybook
“Youknow,forawhile,Ithoughtyouwerethebestthingthateverhappenedtome.ButnowI’mstartingtothinkyou’retheworst.”
6.Agape(ส้/SelflessLove)Eros+Storgeให้ื้ฟื้(Charity)ไม่กู่่ไม่ื่ต้ิ่ป็ู้ให้ว่ป็ู้ป็ี่ไม่ข้ำื่ว่ได้ได้ื่ม้ต่ให้ื่ได้ถ้ัู้่ว่
ย่ร์Agape
>>ForrestGump
"I'mnotasmartman,butIknowwhatloveis."
ี้SusanandClydeHendrickได้ป็LoveAttitudesScale(LAS)ึ่ป็42ข้ื่ว่โน้ป็ให้1-5(1=ไม่ด้ย่ิ่,2=ไม่ด้,3=,4=ด้,5=ด้ย่ิ่)ั้42ี้
Eros
1.MypartnerandIwereattractedtoeachotherimmediatelyafterwefirstmet.
2.MypartnerandIhavetherightphysical“chemistry”betweenus.
3.Ourlovemakingisveryintenseandsatisfying.
4.IfeelthatmypartnerandIweremeantforeachother.
5.MypartnerandIbecameemotionallyinvolvedratherquickly.
6.MypartnerandIreallyunderstandeachother.
7.Mypartnerfitsmyidealstandardsofphysicalbeauty/handsomeness.
Ludus
8.Itrytokeepmypartneralittleuncertainaboutmycommitmenttohim/her.
9.Ibelievethatwhatmypartnerdoesn’tknowaboutmewon’thurthim/her.
10.Ihavesometimeshadtokeepmypartnerfromfindingoutaboutotherlovers.
11.Icouldgetovermyloveaffairwithmypartnerprettyeasilyandquickly.
12.Mypartnerwouldgetupsetifhe/sheknewofsomeofthethingsI’vedonewithotherpeople.
13.Whenmypartnergetstoodependentonme,Iwanttobackoffalittle.
14.Ienjoyplayingthe“gameoflove”withmypartnerandanumberofotherpartners.
15.Itishardformetosayexactlywhenourfriendshipturnedintolove.
16.Tobegenuine,ourlovefirstrequiredcaringforawhile.
17.Iexpecttoalwaysbefriendswithmypartner.
18.Ourloveisthebestkindbecauseitgrewoutofalongfriendship.
19.Ourfriendshipmergedgraduallyintoloveovertime.
20.Ourloveisreallyadeepfriendship,notamysteriousmysticalemotion.
21.Ourloverelationshipisthemostsatisfyingbecauseitdevelopedfromagoodfriendship.
22.IconsideredwhatmypartnerwasgoingtobecomeinlifebeforeIcommittedmyselftohim/her.
23.Itriedtoplanmylifecarefullybeforechoosingapartner.
24.Inchoosingmypartner,Ibelieveditwasbesttolovesomeonewithasimilarbackground.
25.Amainconsiderationinchoosingmypartnerwashowhe/shewouldreflectonmyfamily.
26.Animportantfactorinchoosingmypartnerwaswhetherornothe/shewouldbeagoodparent.
27.Oneconsiderationinchoosingmypartnerwashowhe/shewouldreflectonmycareer.
28.Beforegettingveryinvolvedwithmypartner,Itriedtofigureouthowcompatiblehis/herhereditarybackgroundwouldbewithmineincaseweeverhadchildren.
Mania
29.Whenthingsaren’trightwithmypartnerandme,mystomachgetsupset.
30.IfmypartnerandIbreakup,IwouldgetsodepressedthatIwouldeventhinkofsuicide.
31.SometimesIgetsoexcitedaboutbeinginlovewithmypartnerthatIcan’tsleep.
32.Whenmypartnerdoesn’tpayattentiontome,Ifeelsickallover.
33.SinceI’vebeeninlovewithmypartner,I’vehadtroubleconcentratingonanythingelse.
34.IcannotrelaxifIsuspectthatmypartneriswithsomeoneelse.
35.Ifmypartnerignoresmeforawhile,Isometimesdostupidthingstotrytogethis/herattentionback.
Agape
36.Itrytoalwayshelpmypartnerthroughdifficulttimes.
37.Iwouldrathersuffermyselfthanletmypartnersuffer
38.IcannotbehappyunlessIplacemypartner’shappinessbeforemyown.
39.Iamusuallywillingtosacrificemyownwishestoletmypartnerachievehis/hers.
40.WhateverIownismypartner’stouseashe/shechooses.
41.Whenmypartnergetsangrywithme,Istilllovehim/herfullyandunconditionally.
42.Iwouldendureallthingsforthesakeofmypartner.
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